Witnessing Stories

“Don’t Delude Yourself,” he told me


While at Menards last week, I saw an older gentlemen walk by leisurely with his cart. I gave him a Christmas tract. He seemed appreciative and I noticed he started reading it right away.

Twenty or thirty minutes later, I saw him again near the front of the store. I smiled and made eye contact, hoping he might comment on the tract.

“Hey, where did you get that little booklet?” he asked me.
Yay! Just what I was hoping for!
I explained that I ordered it online, and that I think it’s important for people to remember the basics of what Christmas is about, and what the Bible has to say about it.
“Well, good for you,” he said.

“So do you have a spiritual background?” I asked him.
He said that he went to the Eastern Orthodox church in town.
“What about you? Do you have a spiritual background?” he asked me.
I shared a brief version of my testimony… that when I was six I realized for the first time that “even though I was in a Christian family, that didn’t make me a Christian, and I had to trust Jesus to save me… I wanted to go to Heaven and not to Hell…”

“Well, you have to do a lot of bad stuff to go down there!” he exclaimed.

I referenced a few of the Ten Commandments, commenting on the very high standard it is, and told him that just one sin disqualifies us from God’s presence.

But when I explained the gospel, he replied, “Now don’t delude yourself…”

Hmmm. I wonder what he disagreed with? I thought. I had said that I was trusting in Jesus’ death alone and His gift of righteousness to get to Heaven and not my own good works.

Apparently, his view was that everyone was going to Heaven unless you do something “bad enough” to send you to Hell. So we talked for about thirty minutes in the aisle there about God’s justice, Romans 2, the gospel, and why Jesus came. It was a very nice conversation and he told me his name, telling me to call him if I wanted to talk more.

Since my conversation with him, I’ve been thinking about Matthew 7:13-14. “Enter by the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and there are many who go in by it. Because narrow is the gate and difficult is the way which leads to life, and there are few who find it.”

Most people on the broad road think they are headed for Heaven, but if they would listen to God’s Word, they would realize that they are not. Most are also open to talking about it. “Therefore beseech the Lord of the harvest to send out workers into His harvest.” Matthew 9:38


  1. Grace, I’ve been following your blog for a long time and think it’s great what you and your family are doing. My wife and I have 7 children and have been trying to connect with like minded families. We would like to come to one of your events, do you know your schedule for 2015? I also wrote to some bright lights groups and never got any followup from them. We often feel like an island in a deep dark sea. Keep up the God work.

  2. Good job speaking the truth. There are quite a few people that do not realize Gods standards are not the same as ours. That all liars will have there part in the lake of fire, and hatred is the same as murder. Keep speaking the truth in love, will be praying 🙂

  3. Grace i love talking to people in stores at Christmastime and looking for an opening to witness, which i blow it most of the time but keep trying to be effective. thanks for your examples! love, Bobbie Norris

  4. Thanks Grace for all these examples and testimonies! Yes, i admit. I blew it once and didn’t dare try again. Now I jut slip in phrases indicating that God is…., Jesus is….
    Praying for courage!

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